Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Yeah, that expression annoys the fuck outta me.
AFC: You get lucky?
DJ: She got lucky.
AFC: You get lucky?
DJ: She got lucky.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Understandable, but men's libido will always be a factor. What I'm getting at is how the feminine imperative uses this, and of course the covert/psychological nature of women demands that social contrivances be developed. No woman, regardless of how attractive can overtly say, "I'm going to use my sexuality to make men comply with my wishes, provide for my needs and agree with my thinking." Any woman who'd do so is automatically an overt, grand manipulator who's broken the cardinal rule of the women's fight club - never talk about or directly acknowledge the covert contrivance. Those who do, open themselves up to easy attack in women's sexual competition combat and men who figure the real nature of the contrivance must be marginalized and shamed for even attempting to figure it out.Jitterbug said:Is it Feminine Mystique or is it simply Men's Lust? I mean, all of this mystique or elusiveness is worth sweet bugger all if the woman isn't attractive. An attractive woman can be unpredictable - guys will then say that her mystique is attractive. She can also be totally frank and honest - guys will then say that her innocence is attractive. In either case, guys will think that they'd need to get lucky to be with her.
The weird thing is they will do this with no intention of putting out, like in a work setting. As I said before I'm starting to see just how much guys will act like fools just because a girl is involved, do they really think something is going to happen? And does the girl really intend to actually do something? No,but just being female is enough to get the dude to do anything. Yeah I'm figuring this out late.Rollo Tomassi said:No woman, regardless of how attractive can overtly say, "I'm going to use my sexuality to make men comply with my wishes, provide for my needs and agree with my thinking."
Part of it is the general b.s. of our culture, but part of it is real as well.reset said:Stupid question of the day: Could someone please explain to me where we got this notion that women have more intrinsic worth than men?
Well there goes my prize mentality.Luthor Rex said:From the brutal point of view of Natuer, women are the valuable sex and men are the disposable sex.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Physics tells us that all systems tend toward entropy. While the overall universe we live in may be burning out, that doesn't mean there can't be pockets of low-entropy where life exists.reset said:Well there goes my prize mentality.