"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Because I can and because I can call you out too. .
Let me put this Roseanne Barr, fat, obese, feminist chick under a 17 year old's profile on ignore. It's just the fact that I'm speaking with a FAT CHICK that annoys the hell out of me. FAT CHICKS are the reason America is becoming a "sh*thole" :rofl:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let me put this Roseanne Barr, fat, obese, feminist chick under a 17 year old's profile on ignore. It's just the fact that I'm speaking with a FAT CHICK that annoys the hell out of me. FAT CHICKS are the reason America is becoming a "sh*thole" :rofl:
I've believed ImTheDoubleGreatest! to be a troll since I came to this site.

Somehow he/she keeps their account. Not sure why.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/everyone-wants-the-quick-fix.246711/#post-2515018

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/everyone-wants-the-quick-fix.246711/page-2#post-2515023

^^^ This is the basis of @Urbanyst's argument. He's not saying all a guy needs is to look good but have a personality like dry paint. He's saying to FIX yourself and become the total package....which is what I have been preaching as well on this board. You FIX your looks, finances, and personality/social skills, then you go play the numbers game.

What myself and @Urbanyst are preaching is actually in alignment with the definition of a Don Juan. The Don Juan is the guy that fixes himself to the point he's attractive without the tricks, techniques, and mind games that go along with the PUA/Seduction Artist's "Game Tactics". The Don Juan gets women on his OWN terms not using some prescribed "Game" principles written by a PUA.

Seeing as though the concept of Don Juan is a Sosuave creation, how anybody is disagreeing with this man is beyond me?
 

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Seeing as though the concept of Don Juan is a Sosuave creation, how anybody is disagreeing with this man is beyond me?
They disagree with me for two reasons:

1. They are blue pill
2. They want a QUICK FIX

Look at how "get rich quick" schemes are usually pure dog sh*t designed to swindle you out of your MONEY and waste your time. "Game" is in the same boat. Its a "get STATUS quick" scheme.

The sh*t doesn't work. If it did.. this forum would be empty lol. You could just buy a PUA book and your life would change the next day.

This forum should be about things guys are doing to raise their SMV and learning the truth about women. This site does a better job at the latter than the former. Too many people here believe raising your SMV is about "game". I'm here to shift that perspective so guys can actually put their time and energy into sh*t that matters in their lives. MONEY, health and happiness.

People who want quick fixes in life are LAZY as f*ck. If you're too LAZY to fix your SMV, nothing can help you lol.
 

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Let me put this Roseanne Barr, fat, obese, feminist chick under a 17 year old's profile on ignore. It's just the fact that I'm speaking with a FAT CHICK that annoys the hell out of me. FAT CHICKS are the reason America is becoming a "sh*thole" :rofl:
You’re part of it too, ***** boy. People of YOUR kind always go after fat chicks. But you like to call them ‘thick’ even though they fat. Gtfo hahahahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get back on topic chunky.

Final warning.
‘Final warning’.

Stfu already you hypocrite. I’ve stayed on topic with you before only for it to be diverted when you know you can’t argue to directly or you just don’t respond in general.

How about this for your ‘staying on topic’:

It’s all about context. Knowing when to insult ANYONE is based primarily upon the situation you are placed in. Most of the time, diffusing the situation is best, as your personality should dictate how you are viewed by others (tough, manly, etc. )

Am I personally afraid? No. I’m not gonna do it when it’s uncalled for obviously, but if a chick (or anyone for that matter) is being a POS, then I’ll tell them straight up. They might not like me as much for it afterwards, but other people will. And after a quick cost-benefit analysis, I always come out on top with more to gain than to lose.

Something to consider, since you love talking about LMS so much...

Looks will work for you (sometimes), money will work against you (they are more likely to sue you), and status will also work against you (now it’s made public and now you are infamous instead of famous; bigger they get, harder they fall). Good looking people can get away with a lot. But sometimes it can work against you for the simple reason that people will automatically assume that you’re a douchebag. Again, most of the time it’s context, but it’s good to know these things. A homeless man who tries talking crap about someone else is meaningless, no one wants to get anything from him. But Donald Trump saying Rosie O’Donald is a fatass is an entirely different thing. No one even really knows the amount of times he’s been sued before lol. You have to look at things from all angles.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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