Are you a player?

[alwysfishin85]

The switch has turned on for me a few months back and all thanks to you gents (along with work of my own.). A common occurrence is to be asked, "are you a player" within first 3 times hanging out (close around this time and seeing a correlation. I know what I answered before this change screamed AFC....now I usually respond with "what's a player look like" deflect and change topic. Seeing.from the more experienced gents some other responses that have had results.

 

[BeDJ]

Probably, it's tough to satisfy all 10 girlfriends.

 

[drak_ool]

now I usually respond with "what's a player look like" deflect and change topic

That's the "spirit" of any answer to a sh.it test, such as asking you "are you a player." You just want to deflect and simply refuse to answer, no matter how much she insists. Keep it aloof, but remember the goal: don't answer

As far as specific answers:

"takes one to know one"
"why you saying that?" [without denying or affirming in any way]
No matter how she follows up, use that to say "so you have a lot of experience with players..."
"I'm not a player, I just f.uck a lot" said with a grin [if you think the girl has enough musical culture to catch the reference to Big Pun]