"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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alwysfishin85

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The switch has turned on for me a few months back and all thanks to you gents (along with work of my own.). A common occurrence is to be asked, "are you a player" within first 3 times hanging out (close around this time and seeing a correlation. I know what I answered before this change screamed AFC....now I usually respond with "what's a player look like" deflect and change topic. Seeing.from the more experienced gents some other responses that have had results.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alwysfishin85 said:
now I usually respond with "what's a player look like" deflect and change topic
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That's the "spirit" of any answer to a sh.it test, such as asking you "are you a player." You just want to deflect and simply refuse to answer, no matter how much she insists. Keep it aloof, but remember the goal: don't answer

As far as specific answers:

"takes one to know one"
"why you saying that?" [without denying or affirming in any way]
No matter how she follows up, use that to say "so you have a lot of experience with players..."
"I'm not a player, I just f.uck a lot" said with a grin [if you think the girl has enough musical culture to catch the reference to Big Pun]
 
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