"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"are You A Playboy? How Many Women Have You Had Sex With?"

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"Are you a playboy?" and "How many women have you had sex with?" Is what some women would ask me and this is how I respond.

GIRL
"Are you a playboy?"

ME
"Yes"

GIRL
"I hate Playboys"

ME
"I'm just a normal guy"

GIRL
"How many women have you been with?"

ME
"Hundreds"

GIRL
"WOW! really? How many? come on tell me?"

ME
"To many to count"

I would be answering these questions with short answers with a straight but relaxed face.

Most of the time I would bring her home afterwards or she would take me back to her place or I would get a number for a booty call later.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Those answers sound a bit conceited. I learned that if you just stay mysterious(don't answer the question), their IL's raise more.
 
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Her" how many women have you self with"

me:" none of your damn business, that's how many"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How the hell is this a tip?
 
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i think it was a suggested answer to that question, could be wrong though.
At any rate, is this field tested? I'd think (don't know) that something like
Her: How many women have you slept with?
you: No, how many women have YOU slept with?

might be a bit more effective, since you're not (even jokingly) giving off a player vibe, and you'll likely defuse the situation because she's going to change the topic onto how she's not a lesbian (or, possibly, how many women she's slept with....). With alot of girls, it's really better if they don't have an (honest? ) answer to that question.....
 
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Rebound Material said:
Those answers sound a bit conceited. I learned that if you just stay mysterious(don't answer the question), their IL's raise more.
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Somebody else asked, "how the hell is this a tip?"(he is now being ignored by me as he is a Dumb :moon:)

The answer to his question, and something for you to think about rebound...

This is a tip, because tons of girls LOVE conceited guys.

Why you might ask, well being conceited shows you are confident.
 
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Bonez said:
Somebody else asked, "how the hell is this a tip?"(he is now being ignored by me as he is a Dumb :moon:)

The answer to his question, and something for you to think about rebound...

This is a tip, because tons of girls LOVE conceited guys.

Why you might ask, well being conceited shows you are confident.
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Hmm...to me, this is a guy whos trying to give a tip by bragging about some girl he picked up. Last time i checked, girls dont particularly love CONCEITED guys. If someone is conceited theyre OVERCONFIDENT and self absorbed. Being confident and knowing what you can do is one thing; however, if youre conceited and think youre some badass hot shot, in my opinion, thats not the right way to go. But hey, what the hell do i know.
 
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