"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"are You A Playboy? How Many Women Have You Had Sex With?"

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"Are you a playboy?" and "How many women have you had sex with?" Is what some women would ask me and this is how I respond.

GIRL
"Are you a playboy?"

ME
"Yes"

GIRL
"I hate Playboys"

ME
"I'm just a normal guy"

GIRL
"How many women have you been with?"

ME
"Hundreds"

GIRL
"WOW! really? How many? come on tell me?"

ME
"To many to count"

I would be answering these questions with short answers with a straight but relaxed face.

Most of the time I would bring her home afterwards or she would take me back to her place or I would get a number for a booty call later.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Those answers sound a bit conceited. I learned that if you just stay mysterious(don't answer the question), their IL's raise more.
 

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Her" how many women have you self with"

me:" none of your damn business, that's how many"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How the hell is this a tip?
 

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i think it was a suggested answer to that question, could be wrong though.
At any rate, is this field tested? I'd think (don't know) that something like
Her: How many women have you slept with?
you: No, how many women have YOU slept with?

might be a bit more effective, since you're not (even jokingly) giving off a player vibe, and you'll likely defuse the situation because she's going to change the topic onto how she's not a lesbian (or, possibly, how many women she's slept with....). With alot of girls, it's really better if they don't have an (honest? ) answer to that question.....
 

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Rebound Material said:
Those answers sound a bit conceited. I learned that if you just stay mysterious(don't answer the question), their IL's raise more.
Somebody else asked, "how the hell is this a tip?"(he is now being ignored by me as he is a Dumb :moon:)

The answer to his question, and something for you to think about rebound...

This is a tip, because tons of girls LOVE conceited guys.

Why you might ask, well being conceited shows you are confident.
 

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Bonez said:
Somebody else asked, "how the hell is this a tip?"(he is now being ignored by me as he is a Dumb :moon:)

The answer to his question, and something for you to think about rebound...

This is a tip, because tons of girls LOVE conceited guys.

Why you might ask, well being conceited shows you are confident.
Hmm...to me, this is a guy whos trying to give a tip by bragging about some girl he picked up. Last time i checked, girls dont particularly love CONCEITED guys. If someone is conceited theyre OVERCONFIDENT and self absorbed. Being confident and knowing what you can do is one thing; however, if youre conceited and think youre some badass hot shot, in my opinion, thats not the right way to go. But hey, what the hell do i know.
 
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