"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you a boobs, legs or bum guy? Do you think it says anything about you?

Eternal_water

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Just a bit of fun this thread,

Obviously as guys we like all 3 but most of us have a preference to which we like the most.

During my school years I was absolutely a boob guy and didn't care for legs/bum at all. They didn't even register as sexually attractive to me. I was obsessed with boobs and couldn't stop getting erections just from being around girls with big boobs.
Then in sixth form and throughout Uni I was a leg guy, it was all about legs for me.
Post Uni to the present day I am a bum guy.
I still like all 3 but in order for me now its 1) bums 2) legs 3)boobs

So which do you guys prefer and has it changed over the years?
And do you think it tells you anything about your personality or is genetically random as to what you prefer?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Roober

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Great question!

I am totally a butt guy. There is nothing like grabbing a nice rear end. It has to be at least a handful, and somewhat firm. I would say a nice flat (or close to) stomach is next for me. If they have the bum and stomach, the legs are likely to be good as well.

I could really care less about boobs, maybe cause those are fixable!
 

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I like all three of course, but I've always been a boob man. I can't think of anything more distinctly feminine than a pair of breasts. I'm always puzzled when some guys aren't that into them. Oh well, whatever.

I do think it says something about my personality, but I'm not sure what.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GS750

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I'm an ass guy and of equal importance a leg guy. Don't get me wrong I like a nice set of C or D cups...natural or implants. But a nice ass and nice legs are more important to me.
 

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Aren't the ass and legs apart of the same thing? I mean I look specifically at the hips when I look at her 'legs', not her ankle or calf... If I had to pick, I would definitely say an ass guy. And hips. A great hip to waist ratio with a v-line from having full legs is prolly the biggest turn on to me. Almost like those comic book characters.

Then again not even pornstars really look like that so I'm not gonna have any luck. Feelsbadman :cry::cry::cry:
 

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My favorite girl was practically flat chested when I first saw her. I never saw a sexier woman in my life. When she got a boob job I was devastated but she kept them small. Girls with small boobs tend to have the flattest abs and sexiest legs and butts.
 

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Full package here, but I tend to go for tiny petite girls, that are flat chested... They have the best bodies! Their bums are almost perfection!
 

Who Dares Win

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Long straight toned legs are a must.

Im fine with small boobs but x-shaped legs are a huge turnoff so are skinny fat legs with no calves.

Of course a good set of boobs is nice but given the need to pick a priority I pick legs.

Anyway legs and ass are togheter, hard to find a girl with great legs and a low fat ass.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SmooveMooves

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I like feminine gym builds --- or Margot Robbie.

Butt can't be to big though, should be a little larger than my hand, tight. Don't really need visible abs either. Boobs can have or not have, I like a nice c cup but I wouldn't mind a a.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the donkey for me too.
 

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Legs. I must be in the minority to not prefer "thick" women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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