"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are women with kids worth fvcking?

The Duke

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Are you missing out on anything? No not really. If a baby has been pushed out, she's not going to be as tight as a woman who hasn't had kids.
This is far from my experience. Has little to do with it. I've been with 73 women. If you want your girl tight, Tell her to start doing kegl exercises. You won't be able to tell the difference between her azzhole or puzzy. True story. Kids or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oOh Nasty

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If you have an urge to bang her, then it all depends on how easy it will be to dodge her emotional shlt post-bang. But that's something you deal with anyways regarding all girls. If she still has that ideal look of what you'd enjoy fvcking, then go for it but with an extra teaspoon of caution.
 

lost_blackbird

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The childless man has a dilemma here.
Too true, I don't have any children and if I were looking for a sex partner I absolutely wouldn't want a woman
that has them either. This dramatically reduces my options within my own age group, not many 40+ women that
haven't been tagged already. I really don't have much tolerance for children apart from my nephew and niece.
 

f(x)

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I prefer no more than one child.
Hopefully she has had a C-section.
Her schedule may be inconsistent.
Be the one who fux her and leaves.
 

Bokanovsky

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Not dating, but only fwb type of thing at most. I've never banged a woman with kids; am I missing out? Are they an easier and better lay or more work than they're worth?
Fvcking? Sure. Dating and caring for? No way.

If you are the type of guy who develops feels for every pvssy he bangs, stay away. Otherwise, sure why not? They are neither easier nor better. Their are just women looking for some svcker replace their baby daddy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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