"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are women with kids worth fvcking?

The Duke

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Are you missing out on anything? No not really. If a baby has been pushed out, she's not going to be as tight as a woman who hasn't had kids.
This is far from my experience. Has little to do with it. I've been with 73 women. If you want your girl tight, Tell her to start doing kegl exercises. You won't be able to tell the difference between her azzhole or puzzy. True story. Kids or not.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oOh Nasty

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If you have an urge to bang her, then it all depends on how easy it will be to dodge her emotional shlt post-bang. But that's something you deal with anyways regarding all girls. If she still has that ideal look of what you'd enjoy fvcking, then go for it but with an extra teaspoon of caution.
 

lost_blackbird

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The childless man has a dilemma here.
Too true, I don't have any children and if I were looking for a sex partner I absolutely wouldn't want a woman
that has them either. This dramatically reduces my options within my own age group, not many 40+ women that
haven't been tagged already. I really don't have much tolerance for children apart from my nephew and niece.
 

f(x)

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I prefer no more than one child.
Hopefully she has had a C-section.
Her schedule may be inconsistent.
Be the one who fux her and leaves.
 

Bokanovsky

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Not dating, but only fwb type of thing at most. I've never banged a woman with kids; am I missing out? Are they an easier and better lay or more work than they're worth?
Fvcking? Sure. Dating and caring for? No way.

If you are the type of guy who develops feels for every pvssy he bangs, stay away. Otherwise, sure why not? They are neither easier nor better. Their are just women looking for some svcker replace their baby daddy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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