"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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are women turned off by reseedin men?

onyx

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the male side of my family got a history of going bald lol, I'm only 19, and i was looking in the mirror today and i've started going a little bit, it's kinda weird to say i'm only 19.

I can still style my hair and spike it up, without it been really noticable, but within the next few years its going to get worse, is this a turn off to women?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatality

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No offense but do you really have to ask if baldness is a turnoff?
 

BlackDragon

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yeah, I know whatcha mean. Im 19 too, and it look like my hair line is reseedin. Damnit, I wanted to grow dreads after my enlistment in the military.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ShizamDaMan

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I got a lot of gray hair, big deal.

It's only a problem if you make it a problem.
 

2niceaguy

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Rogaine, Propecia...I know the latter works to some degree on the top of the head but for receeding hairline ???:D

A look that some guys pull off is the basically shaved head with a little stuble and funky colored eye glasses and some earrings??? sort of a rock star/ David Beckham look...Nothing like my look though.
 

bootlegger

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like someone already said...


learn to spell receding.


It's probably more of a turn off that you can't spell than not having hair.
 
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