"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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are women turned off by reseedin men?

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the male side of my family got a history of going bald lol, I'm only 19, and i was looking in the mirror today and i've started going a little bit, it's kinda weird to say i'm only 19.

I can still style my hair and spike it up, without it been really noticable, but within the next few years its going to get worse, is this a turn off to women?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fatality

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No offense but do you really have to ask if baldness is a turnoff?
 
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BlackDragon

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yeah, I know whatcha mean. Im 19 too, and it look like my hair line is reseedin. Damnit, I wanted to grow dreads after my enlistment in the military.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ShizamDaMan

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I got a lot of gray hair, big deal.

It's only a problem if you make it a problem.
 
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Rogaine, Propecia...I know the latter works to some degree on the top of the head but for receeding hairline ???:D

A look that some guys pull off is the basically shaved head with a little stuble and funky colored eye glasses and some earrings??? sort of a rock star/ David Beckham look...Nothing like my look though.
 
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like someone already said...


learn to spell receding.


It's probably more of a turn off that you can't spell than not having hair.
 
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