mahon83050
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Maybe alot has to do with the fact that I am a heterosexual male who is naturally attracted to women. However, doesn't it seem like there are alot more attractive women out there than there are men?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Are women the better looking of the sexes?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
blackbelt2k
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how many men do you know that spend 1.5+ hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out?... personally, it takes me: 10 min show MAX, 5 min putting on clothes, 1-2 min style hair, hit myyself with cologne.... i think you get the point
PeterNorthisawesome
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Amen to that. +1blackbelt2k said:how many men do you know that spend 1.5+ hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out?... personally, it takes me: 10 min show MAX, 5 min putting on clothes, 1-2 min style hair, hit myyself with cologne.... i think you get the point
How would a heterosexual male know? He'll check out more chicks than guys. So obviously he'll see more "better looking" chick. How can you even compare looks? Men and female look pretty different to me.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
looks and attraction are mostly subjective. but if by better looking you mean, easy on the eyes or colorful or something, then its really a toss up. this whole post is confusing me i better go
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i personally am straight... but i believe beauty can be found in both sexes... to me, a man with the right body proportions and musculature with a strong featured face is considered "beautiful". Leonardo's statue of david is a good example of this. Or why would so many guys want to aspire to look like brad pitt? Lets face it we all see which guys are good looking and which are not, otherwise guys on here wouldn't be crying about being ugly. on average,there are more attractive females than males... but because we function for different purposes. men are supposed to be strong and tough, and women soft and gentle. I find having a pretty face and a manly body makes one appealing to the women.
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I'm way hotter than some b1tch... :yes:
Crazy Asian
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dude, under all that makeup and god know what chicks put on, they are all not that good looking.
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
mahon83050
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Crazy Asian said:dude, under all that makeup and god know what chicks put on, they are all not that good looking.
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
True, makeup does do wonders. I remember seeing this hot shot girl my roomate was sleeping with. With her makeup on she was like a 9. I remember running into her in a Burger King (without makeup) and she looked like a totally different person.
mahon83050
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Crazy Asian said:dude, under all that makeup and god know what chicks put on, they are all not that good looking.
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
True, makeup does do wonders. I remember seeing this hot shot girl my roomate was sleeping with. With her makeup on she was like a 9. I remember running into her in a Burger King (without makeup) and she looked like a totally different person.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
to whom
you'll never hear a guy tell another guy that he is good looking.
you'll never hear a guy tell another guy that he is good looking.
women may have an edge on us in looks as humans, but look in the animal world. it's often times the male is the more colorful and beautiful of the species.
i think males are originally designed to be more colorful and flawnty of the species. men in ancient times used to wear make up and all type sof colorful clothes.
i think males are originally designed to be more colorful and flawnty of the species. men in ancient times used to wear make up and all type sof colorful clothes.
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I think guys are better looking.
We don't have to wear make-up or do things that superficially make us look good. Instead we come on forums like this to learn C+F and gain confidence. When guys want to look better (not emo ones), they hit the gym. When girls want to look better, usually, they have plastic surgery, lipo, wear make-up, put on tighter clothes, etc. All fake. I'm completely straight, but I think women are far uglier.
We don't have to wear make-up or do things that superficially make us look good. Instead we come on forums like this to learn C+F and gain confidence. When guys want to look better (not emo ones), they hit the gym. When girls want to look better, usually, they have plastic surgery, lipo, wear make-up, put on tighter clothes, etc. All fake. I'm completely straight, but I think women are far uglier.
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so you're saying its the effort people make to look more attractive? therefore if a person makes more effort to look more attractive then they are compensating for their lack of looks. so if a woman wears no makeup and takes 20 minutes getting ready to go out, then she is on level with the attractiveness of a man who takes 20 minutes? (assuming they are both the same rating like an 8)
men do not (on average) wear makeup to cover up flaws such as acne, wrinkles, etc. if women did not wear it, we'd get a much better picture of how they compare to us. lets not forget womens clothing is also designed to enhance the female body's appearance ( pushup bras, low rise jeans)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You know how I know some of you guys are gay? Because you guys are men saying men are better looking than women.*
* The author of this joke inspired by the movie, 40-year old virgin, will not be held liable if someone doesn't know how to take or identify a joke.
* The author of this joke inspired by the movie, 40-year old virgin, will not be held liable if someone doesn't know how to take or identify a joke.
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You know how I know some of you guys are homophobe? Because you are an inbred dipsh!t scared over the thought of a bunch of fags on the internet.*
* The author of this joke is laughing at you.
* The author of this joke is laughing at you.
belividere
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I just saw knocked up over the weekend and this thread made me think of one of the lines in it. The older sister in the movie was *****ing about how it was unfair that as women get older they get ugly and saggy while men get better looking.
How many good looking girls do you guys see over 40? A lot of the guys you see ranked in magazines as the most beautiful are older, while the women are all usually under 35 or so with a few exceptions.
How many good looking girls do you guys see over 40? A lot of the guys you see ranked in magazines as the most beautiful are older, while the women are all usually under 35 or so with a few exceptions.
I knew there'd be someone that couldn't take a joke. :crackup:Create Reality said:You know how I know some of you guys are homophobe? Because you are an inbred dipsh!t scared over the thought of a bunch of fags on the internet.
He's a bit of a hypocrite as well: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1144227#post1144227
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it would only be hypocritical if it scared me, which it doesn't
fruitcake.
fruitcake.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.