mahon83050
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Maybe alot has to do with the fact that I am a heterosexual male who is naturally attracted to women. However, doesn't it seem like there are alot more attractive women out there than there are men?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Are women the better looking of the sexes?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
blackbelt2k
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how many men do you know that spend 1.5+ hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out?... personally, it takes me: 10 min show MAX, 5 min putting on clothes, 1-2 min style hair, hit myyself with cologne.... i think you get the point
PeterNorthisawesome
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Amen to that. +1blackbelt2k said:how many men do you know that spend 1.5+ hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out?... personally, it takes me: 10 min show MAX, 5 min putting on clothes, 1-2 min style hair, hit myyself with cologne.... i think you get the point
How would a heterosexual male know? He'll check out more chicks than guys. So obviously he'll see more "better looking" chick. How can you even compare looks? Men and female look pretty different to me.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
looks and attraction are mostly subjective. but if by better looking you mean, easy on the eyes or colorful or something, then its really a toss up. this whole post is confusing me i better go
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i personally am straight... but i believe beauty can be found in both sexes... to me, a man with the right body proportions and musculature with a strong featured face is considered "beautiful". Leonardo's statue of david is a good example of this. Or why would so many guys want to aspire to look like brad pitt? Lets face it we all see which guys are good looking and which are not, otherwise guys on here wouldn't be crying about being ugly. on average,there are more attractive females than males... but because we function for different purposes. men are supposed to be strong and tough, and women soft and gentle. I find having a pretty face and a manly body makes one appealing to the women.
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I'm way hotter than some b1tch... :yes:
Crazy Asian
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dude, under all that makeup and god know what chicks put on, they are all not that good looking.
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
mahon83050
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Crazy Asian said:dude, under all that makeup and god know what chicks put on, they are all not that good looking.
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
True, makeup does do wonders. I remember seeing this hot shot girl my roomate was sleeping with. With her makeup on she was like a 9. I remember running into her in a Burger King (without makeup) and she looked like a totally different person.
mahon83050
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Crazy Asian said:dude, under all that makeup and god know what chicks put on, they are all not that good looking.
for example, theres this REALLY hot model that goes to my school, and i saw one of her pics w/o makeup and i was like ugggh.... u get the point
True, makeup does do wonders. I remember seeing this hot shot girl my roomate was sleeping with. With her makeup on she was like a 9. I remember running into her in a Burger King (without makeup) and she looked like a totally different person.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
to whom
you'll never hear a guy tell another guy that he is good looking.
you'll never hear a guy tell another guy that he is good looking.
women may have an edge on us in looks as humans, but look in the animal world. it's often times the male is the more colorful and beautiful of the species.
i think males are originally designed to be more colorful and flawnty of the species. men in ancient times used to wear make up and all type sof colorful clothes.
i think males are originally designed to be more colorful and flawnty of the species. men in ancient times used to wear make up and all type sof colorful clothes.
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I think guys are better looking.
We don't have to wear make-up or do things that superficially make us look good. Instead we come on forums like this to learn C+F and gain confidence. When guys want to look better (not emo ones), they hit the gym. When girls want to look better, usually, they have plastic surgery, lipo, wear make-up, put on tighter clothes, etc. All fake. I'm completely straight, but I think women are far uglier.
We don't have to wear make-up or do things that superficially make us look good. Instead we come on forums like this to learn C+F and gain confidence. When guys want to look better (not emo ones), they hit the gym. When girls want to look better, usually, they have plastic surgery, lipo, wear make-up, put on tighter clothes, etc. All fake. I'm completely straight, but I think women are far uglier.
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Master Don Juan
so you're saying its the effort people make to look more attractive? therefore if a person makes more effort to look more attractive then they are compensating for their lack of looks. so if a woman wears no makeup and takes 20 minutes getting ready to go out, then she is on level with the attractiveness of a man who takes 20 minutes? (assuming they are both the same rating like an 8)
men do not (on average) wear makeup to cover up flaws such as acne, wrinkles, etc. if women did not wear it, we'd get a much better picture of how they compare to us. lets not forget womens clothing is also designed to enhance the female body's appearance ( pushup bras, low rise jeans)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You know how I know some of you guys are gay? Because you guys are men saying men are better looking than women.*
* The author of this joke inspired by the movie, 40-year old virgin, will not be held liable if someone doesn't know how to take or identify a joke.
* The author of this joke inspired by the movie, 40-year old virgin, will not be held liable if someone doesn't know how to take or identify a joke.
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You know how I know some of you guys are homophobe? Because you are an inbred dipsh!t scared over the thought of a bunch of fags on the internet.*
* The author of this joke is laughing at you.
* The author of this joke is laughing at you.
belividere
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I just saw knocked up over the weekend and this thread made me think of one of the lines in it. The older sister in the movie was *****ing about how it was unfair that as women get older they get ugly and saggy while men get better looking.
How many good looking girls do you guys see over 40? A lot of the guys you see ranked in magazines as the most beautiful are older, while the women are all usually under 35 or so with a few exceptions.
How many good looking girls do you guys see over 40? A lot of the guys you see ranked in magazines as the most beautiful are older, while the women are all usually under 35 or so with a few exceptions.
I knew there'd be someone that couldn't take a joke. :crackup:Create Reality said:You know how I know some of you guys are homophobe? Because you are an inbred dipsh!t scared over the thought of a bunch of fags on the internet.
He's a bit of a hypocrite as well: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1144227#post1144227
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Master Don Juan
it would only be hypocritical if it scared me, which it doesn't
fruitcake.
fruitcake.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.