"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are women smart?

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It's quite well-known that men are more logical whereas women are more emotional. But considering raw intellectual power, are women as intelligent as men?

I'm looking for a fact-based discussion, not a vitriolic "herp-derp b!tches are dumb" circle-jerk. For example, what are the differences between average male IQ versus average female IQ. Or you can give your own personal experiences that call to mind their capacity for higher cognitive functions and intelligence Either way, try not trying to spark a misogynistic discussion and keep it objective.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Borknagar

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They can be,. but it's all up to the individual. Both men and women can think logically when it comes to technical things and what not. I know some girls that are very logical on non-relationship issues, things that don't involve person to person emotion.

When it comes to relationships, both have feelings, but a man's feelings tend to be more logics based and more stable, whereas a womens feeling's tend to border a psychological issue, and are very unstable.
 

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I've said it before on here. Women are cleaning our clock when it comes to career, family, and even money (depending on if they are single and in an urban area). Among my diverse social circle women are the ones starting businesses, traveling all over the world, balancing career and school and family, etc.

Men may be smarter and I'm sure there are statistics that bore that out. But I'm more concerned with results than potential and right now they are getting results and we aren't.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Misogny isn't healthy, and, of course they are...when it comes to relationships they're pretty damn strategic. They're cunning, clever and precise, in regards to emotional situations though. Females are probably good at other things, but I wouldn't know all of them.

As you said in the OP though, intellectually-wise, I think history speaks for itself. It was Man's brain and brawn that wiped the face of life time and time again, and redfined human life. Every invention every made was pretty much made by a guy....


(girls invented windshield wipes and showerheads though; Google this sh­it they've only made like 10 things)

Rereading FairShake's post I have to think back on the guys I know, and yeah that's pretty damn worrisome.
 

moneyisking

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http://denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm

read this, it's long but extremely insightful and will let you know differences b/t men and women overall. to answer your question though, it all depends.

woman's brain is wired different than man. life-death moment emerges, woman is mostly likely to panic while guy is more likely to stay calm.

woman remember details better than us, but we see in bigger picture. read the article, i think moderator Rollossi introduced the article
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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