"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are women smart?

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It's quite well-known that men are more logical whereas women are more emotional. But considering raw intellectual power, are women as intelligent as men?

I'm looking for a fact-based discussion, not a vitriolic "herp-derp b!tches are dumb" circle-jerk. For example, what are the differences between average male IQ versus average female IQ. Or you can give your own personal experiences that call to mind their capacity for higher cognitive functions and intelligence Either way, try not trying to spark a misogynistic discussion and keep it objective.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Borknagar

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They can be,. but it's all up to the individual. Both men and women can think logically when it comes to technical things and what not. I know some girls that are very logical on non-relationship issues, things that don't involve person to person emotion.

When it comes to relationships, both have feelings, but a man's feelings tend to be more logics based and more stable, whereas a womens feeling's tend to border a psychological issue, and are very unstable.
 

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I've said it before on here. Women are cleaning our clock when it comes to career, family, and even money (depending on if they are single and in an urban area). Among my diverse social circle women are the ones starting businesses, traveling all over the world, balancing career and school and family, etc.

Men may be smarter and I'm sure there are statistics that bore that out. But I'm more concerned with results than potential and right now they are getting results and we aren't.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Misogny isn't healthy, and, of course they are...when it comes to relationships they're pretty damn strategic. They're cunning, clever and precise, in regards to emotional situations though. Females are probably good at other things, but I wouldn't know all of them.

As you said in the OP though, intellectually-wise, I think history speaks for itself. It was Man's brain and brawn that wiped the face of life time and time again, and redfined human life. Every invention every made was pretty much made by a guy....


(girls invented windshield wipes and showerheads though; Google this sh­it they've only made like 10 things)

Rereading FairShake's post I have to think back on the guys I know, and yeah that's pretty damn worrisome.
 

moneyisking

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http://denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm

read this, it's long but extremely insightful and will let you know differences b/t men and women overall. to answer your question though, it all depends.

woman's brain is wired different than man. life-death moment emerges, woman is mostly likely to panic while guy is more likely to stay calm.

woman remember details better than us, but we see in bigger picture. read the article, i think moderator Rollossi introduced the article
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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