"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are women smart?

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Don Juan
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It's quite well-known that men are more logical whereas women are more emotional. But considering raw intellectual power, are women as intelligent as men?

I'm looking for a fact-based discussion, not a vitriolic "herp-derp b!tches are dumb" circle-jerk. For example, what are the differences between average male IQ versus average female IQ. Or you can give your own personal experiences that call to mind their capacity for higher cognitive functions and intelligence Either way, try not trying to spark a misogynistic discussion and keep it objective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Borknagar

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They can be,. but it's all up to the individual. Both men and women can think logically when it comes to technical things and what not. I know some girls that are very logical on non-relationship issues, things that don't involve person to person emotion.

When it comes to relationships, both have feelings, but a man's feelings tend to be more logics based and more stable, whereas a womens feeling's tend to border a psychological issue, and are very unstable.
 

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I've said it before on here. Women are cleaning our clock when it comes to career, family, and even money (depending on if they are single and in an urban area). Among my diverse social circle women are the ones starting businesses, traveling all over the world, balancing career and school and family, etc.

Men may be smarter and I'm sure there are statistics that bore that out. But I'm more concerned with results than potential and right now they are getting results and we aren't.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Misogny isn't healthy, and, of course they are...when it comes to relationships they're pretty damn strategic. They're cunning, clever and precise, in regards to emotional situations though. Females are probably good at other things, but I wouldn't know all of them.

As you said in the OP though, intellectually-wise, I think history speaks for itself. It was Man's brain and brawn that wiped the face of life time and time again, and redfined human life. Every invention every made was pretty much made by a guy....


(girls invented windshield wipes and showerheads though; Google this sh­it they've only made like 10 things)

Rereading FairShake's post I have to think back on the guys I know, and yeah that's pretty damn worrisome.
 

moneyisking

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http://denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm

read this, it's long but extremely insightful and will let you know differences b/t men and women overall. to answer your question though, it all depends.

woman's brain is wired different than man. life-death moment emerges, woman is mostly likely to panic while guy is more likely to stay calm.

woman remember details better than us, but we see in bigger picture. read the article, i think moderator Rollossi introduced the article
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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