Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Are women smart?

Relations

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2009
Messages
42
Reaction score
1
It's quite well-known that men are more logical whereas women are more emotional. But considering raw intellectual power, are women as intelligent as men?

I'm looking for a fact-based discussion, not a vitriolic "herp-derp b!tches are dumb" circle-jerk. For example, what are the differences between average male IQ versus average female IQ. Or you can give your own personal experiences that call to mind their capacity for higher cognitive functions and intelligence Either way, try not trying to spark a misogynistic discussion and keep it objective.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Borknagar

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2001
Messages
581
Reaction score
131
Age
47
Location
Minnesota
They can be,. but it's all up to the individual. Both men and women can think logically when it comes to technical things and what not. I know some girls that are very logical on non-relationship issues, things that don't involve person to person emotion.

When it comes to relationships, both have feelings, but a man's feelings tend to be more logics based and more stable, whereas a womens feeling's tend to border a psychological issue, and are very unstable.
 

FairShake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2008
Messages
2,405
Reaction score
306
I've said it before on here. Women are cleaning our clock when it comes to career, family, and even money (depending on if they are single and in an urban area). Among my diverse social circle women are the ones starting businesses, traveling all over the world, balancing career and school and family, etc.

Men may be smarter and I'm sure there are statistics that bore that out. But I'm more concerned with results than potential and right now they are getting results and we aren't.
 

Marvin Gaye

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2010
Messages
423
Reaction score
14
Location
Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Misogny isn't healthy, and, of course they are...when it comes to relationships they're pretty damn strategic. They're cunning, clever and precise, in regards to emotional situations though. Females are probably good at other things, but I wouldn't know all of them.

As you said in the OP though, intellectually-wise, I think history speaks for itself. It was Man's brain and brawn that wiped the face of life time and time again, and redfined human life. Every invention every made was pretty much made by a guy....


(girls invented windshield wipes and showerheads though; Google this sh­it they've only made like 10 things)

Rereading FairShake's post I have to think back on the guys I know, and yeah that's pretty damn worrisome.
 

moneyisking

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2009
Messages
626
Reaction score
11
http://denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm

read this, it's long but extremely insightful and will let you know differences b/t men and women overall. to answer your question though, it all depends.

woman's brain is wired different than man. life-death moment emerges, woman is mostly likely to panic while guy is more likely to stay calm.

woman remember details better than us, but we see in bigger picture. read the article, i think moderator Rollossi introduced the article
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top