"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are woman intimidated by good looking guys?

Themj2000

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Well guys think about this... lets sat a good looking guy approaches a good looking girl. I would think her selfesteem would go up and they might think that they will get approached by many other good looking guys so they just blow off the guy in hopes of finding someone better looking.

Now lets say a good looking girl gets approached by average looking guys, her selfesteem might drop and she will settle with the average. I believe thats how average guys score a very beutiful girl. Plus I believe average guys dont have as many insecurities. Personally I dont consider myself good looking I think im more average but girls tend to think im good looking. I personally have more insecurites than my average looking friends. But I am the alpha of my group of friends and most of my friends meet each other through me because I know more people. I basically hook my friends up with chicks and they end up thanking me. Most of the time its girls Im not attracted to. But they are hover around me all the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Latinoman

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In today's Western society:

There are PLENTY of good looking men out there.
But VERY few MASCULINE men.

True masculinity (not looks) will intimidate a woman, because most women are not used to deal with masculine men.

Learn that and you will learn something valuable in life. Something that you can actually change.
 

KoalaKing

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I can't believe what I am reading on here, everyone seems to have a vendetta against good looking guys, of course the hot babes prefer the hunkiest guys, don't be so silly. :crackup:
 

Socialreject

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KoalaKing said:
I can't believe what I am reading on here, everyone seems to have a vendetta against good looking guys, of course the hot babes prefer the hunkiest guys, don't be so silly. :crackup:
That wasn't even the question, the question was are they intimidated... and they aren't...
 

KoalaKing

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I thought that the worse looking a guy was the more insecurities he would have, I myself have become a lot better looking as I have aged and my insecurities have dramatically fallen away as the result of this.

I wouldn't even leave my home in my younger days when no hot babes were ever attracted to me, as I hated myself, but as I began to look a lot better my self esteem improved dramatically and I began to socialise with hot babes that I would meet.

I don't know why so many of you seem to veiw everything so much differently than I do, maybe it is where I am living, because if you came to Australia you would quickly realise that the best looking guys here generally date the best looking girls and vica versa. :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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