"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are woman intimidated by good looking guys?

Themj2000

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Well guys think about this... lets sat a good looking guy approaches a good looking girl. I would think her selfesteem would go up and they might think that they will get approached by many other good looking guys so they just blow off the guy in hopes of finding someone better looking.

Now lets say a good looking girl gets approached by average looking guys, her selfesteem might drop and she will settle with the average. I believe thats how average guys score a very beutiful girl. Plus I believe average guys dont have as many insecurities. Personally I dont consider myself good looking I think im more average but girls tend to think im good looking. I personally have more insecurites than my average looking friends. But I am the alpha of my group of friends and most of my friends meet each other through me because I know more people. I basically hook my friends up with chicks and they end up thanking me. Most of the time its girls Im not attracted to. But they are hover around me all the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Latinoman

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In today's Western society:

There are PLENTY of good looking men out there.
But VERY few MASCULINE men.

True masculinity (not looks) will intimidate a woman, because most women are not used to deal with masculine men.

Learn that and you will learn something valuable in life. Something that you can actually change.
 

KoalaKing

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I can't believe what I am reading on here, everyone seems to have a vendetta against good looking guys, of course the hot babes prefer the hunkiest guys, don't be so silly. :crackup:
 

Socialreject

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KoalaKing said:
I can't believe what I am reading on here, everyone seems to have a vendetta against good looking guys, of course the hot babes prefer the hunkiest guys, don't be so silly. :crackup:
That wasn't even the question, the question was are they intimidated... and they aren't...
 

KoalaKing

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I thought that the worse looking a guy was the more insecurities he would have, I myself have become a lot better looking as I have aged and my insecurities have dramatically fallen away as the result of this.

I wouldn't even leave my home in my younger days when no hot babes were ever attracted to me, as I hated myself, but as I began to look a lot better my self esteem improved dramatically and I began to socialise with hot babes that I would meet.

I don't know why so many of you seem to veiw everything so much differently than I do, maybe it is where I am living, because if you came to Australia you would quickly realise that the best looking guys here generally date the best looking girls and vica versa. :yes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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