"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are woman intimidated by good looking guys?

Themj2000

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Well guys think about this... lets sat a good looking guy approaches a good looking girl. I would think her selfesteem would go up and they might think that they will get approached by many other good looking guys so they just blow off the guy in hopes of finding someone better looking.

Now lets say a good looking girl gets approached by average looking guys, her selfesteem might drop and she will settle with the average. I believe thats how average guys score a very beutiful girl. Plus I believe average guys dont have as many insecurities. Personally I dont consider myself good looking I think im more average but girls tend to think im good looking. I personally have more insecurites than my average looking friends. But I am the alpha of my group of friends and most of my friends meet each other through me because I know more people. I basically hook my friends up with chicks and they end up thanking me. Most of the time its girls Im not attracted to. But they are hover around me all the time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Latinoman

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In today's Western society:

There are PLENTY of good looking men out there.
But VERY few MASCULINE men.

True masculinity (not looks) will intimidate a woman, because most women are not used to deal with masculine men.

Learn that and you will learn something valuable in life. Something that you can actually change.
 

KoalaKing

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I can't believe what I am reading on here, everyone seems to have a vendetta against good looking guys, of course the hot babes prefer the hunkiest guys, don't be so silly. :crackup:
 

Socialreject

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KoalaKing said:
I can't believe what I am reading on here, everyone seems to have a vendetta against good looking guys, of course the hot babes prefer the hunkiest guys, don't be so silly. :crackup:
That wasn't even the question, the question was are they intimidated... and they aren't...
 

KoalaKing

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I thought that the worse looking a guy was the more insecurities he would have, I myself have become a lot better looking as I have aged and my insecurities have dramatically fallen away as the result of this.

I wouldn't even leave my home in my younger days when no hot babes were ever attracted to me, as I hated myself, but as I began to look a lot better my self esteem improved dramatically and I began to socialise with hot babes that I would meet.

I don't know why so many of you seem to veiw everything so much differently than I do, maybe it is where I am living, because if you came to Australia you would quickly realise that the best looking guys here generally date the best looking girls and vica versa. :yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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