"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are woman attracted to men that look like/ remind them of their fathers?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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studd said:
Women are attracted to Succesfull Man
now go work on it or pay for women.
:moon:

Studies prove women are physically attracted to men who have similar facial features to their fathers.

Not much you can do to influence it, but it's still an interesting idea worth discussing in terms of the psychology behind attraction.
 

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carrot said:
Some one payed for those Studies /Research
Uh, no. It's a Freudian theory that dates back to the origins of modern psychology.

You would learn about this in any intro-level psych class or any course on adolescent behavior. This isn't some bozo trying to sell a book.

Plus, females being attracted to a father-figure totally gels with a lot of the Don Juan/ Alpha Male stuff talked about on SS. (Referenced in this article, for instance: http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall305.htm)

You can use a woman's childhood/ upbringing to gauge what kind of men she's attracted to (physically and emotionally). It's called sexual imprinting. Maybe you should research the topic.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tsmith2334 said:
:moon:

Studies prove women are physically attracted to men who have similar facial features to their fathers.

Not much you can do to influence it, but it's still an interesting idea worth discussing in terms of the psychology behind attraction.
So girls want to f their fathers? Remind me never to have a daughter. :)
 

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I was just reading a book by Kevin Hogan yesterday, and he cited a study in which this was shown to be true.
 

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mindripper06 said:
So girls want to f their fathers? Remind me never to have a daughter. :)
Works the same way with men.

We're attracted to women who remind us of our mothers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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