"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are woman attracted to men that look like/ remind them of their fathers?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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studd said:
Women are attracted to Succesfull Man
now go work on it or pay for women.
:moon:

Studies prove women are physically attracted to men who have similar facial features to their fathers.

Not much you can do to influence it, but it's still an interesting idea worth discussing in terms of the psychology behind attraction.
 

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carrot said:
Some one payed for those Studies /Research
Uh, no. It's a Freudian theory that dates back to the origins of modern psychology.

You would learn about this in any intro-level psych class or any course on adolescent behavior. This isn't some bozo trying to sell a book.

Plus, females being attracted to a father-figure totally gels with a lot of the Don Juan/ Alpha Male stuff talked about on SS. (Referenced in this article, for instance: http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall305.htm)

You can use a woman's childhood/ upbringing to gauge what kind of men she's attracted to (physically and emotionally). It's called sexual imprinting. Maybe you should research the topic.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tsmith2334 said:
:moon:

Studies prove women are physically attracted to men who have similar facial features to their fathers.

Not much you can do to influence it, but it's still an interesting idea worth discussing in terms of the psychology behind attraction.
So girls want to f their fathers? Remind me never to have a daughter. :)
 

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I was just reading a book by Kevin Hogan yesterday, and he cited a study in which this was shown to be true.
 

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mindripper06 said:
So girls want to f their fathers? Remind me never to have a daughter. :)
Works the same way with men.

We're attracted to women who remind us of our mothers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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