"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are woman attracted to men that look like/ remind them of their fathers?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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studd said:
Women are attracted to Succesfull Man
now go work on it or pay for women.
:moon:

Studies prove women are physically attracted to men who have similar facial features to their fathers.

Not much you can do to influence it, but it's still an interesting idea worth discussing in terms of the psychology behind attraction.
 

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carrot said:
Some one payed for those Studies /Research
Uh, no. It's a Freudian theory that dates back to the origins of modern psychology.

You would learn about this in any intro-level psych class or any course on adolescent behavior. This isn't some bozo trying to sell a book.

Plus, females being attracted to a father-figure totally gels with a lot of the Don Juan/ Alpha Male stuff talked about on SS. (Referenced in this article, for instance: http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall305.htm)

You can use a woman's childhood/ upbringing to gauge what kind of men she's attracted to (physically and emotionally). It's called sexual imprinting. Maybe you should research the topic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tsmith2334 said:
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Studies prove women are physically attracted to men who have similar facial features to their fathers.

Not much you can do to influence it, but it's still an interesting idea worth discussing in terms of the psychology behind attraction.
So girls want to f their fathers? Remind me never to have a daughter. :)
 

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I was just reading a book by Kevin Hogan yesterday, and he cited a study in which this was shown to be true.
 

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mindripper06 said:
So girls want to f their fathers? Remind me never to have a daughter. :)
Works the same way with men.

We're attracted to women who remind us of our mothers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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