"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are widows a good source of casual sex?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

http://www.theatlantic.com/notes/2016/04/widowed-people-are-invisible-in-this-society/480540/
Mine begins in 2001, when my husband died in a car accident on the Garden State Parkway

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I gave up dating years ago. Basically every horny man within a 20-mile radius was after me when my husband died, including the local cop, who waited six weeks to ask me out when I was walking my daughter home from school.

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One great thing about being middle aged is that you are essentially invisible; people, especially men, don’t notice you anymore.
I also remember a scene from the movie "All of Me" when a middle-aged man said that he was getting so much action from widows that anytime he read of a funeral of someone he knew, he would get a hard-on. :eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Probably about the same as any other single woman whom you can sufficiently game/pull. The goal is sex first relationship later with any gal.
 

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Dear MDJ,
No they are not the same as any other single Women...They loved and lost,in many cases they will never find another,many wallow in their grief,they enjoy memories of a partner who becomes lionised with every week that goes by,after a few years,no one can match this incredible Guy...Gets a bit wearing for you though,this constant negative comparison the irrational weeping...Sod them,even single Mothers are better.
 
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