"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are widows a good source of casual sex?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

http://www.theatlantic.com/notes/2016/04/widowed-people-are-invisible-in-this-society/480540/
Mine begins in 2001, when my husband died in a car accident on the Garden State Parkway

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I gave up dating years ago. Basically every horny man within a 20-mile radius was after me when my husband died, including the local cop, who waited six weeks to ask me out when I was walking my daughter home from school.

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One great thing about being middle aged is that you are essentially invisible; people, especially men, don’t notice you anymore.
I also remember a scene from the movie "All of Me" when a middle-aged man said that he was getting so much action from widows that anytime he read of a funeral of someone he knew, he would get a hard-on. :eek:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Probably about the same as any other single woman whom you can sufficiently game/pull. The goal is sex first relationship later with any gal.
 

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Dear MDJ,
No they are not the same as any other single Women...They loved and lost,in many cases they will never find another,many wallow in their grief,they enjoy memories of a partner who becomes lionised with every week that goes by,after a few years,no one can match this incredible Guy...Gets a bit wearing for you though,this constant negative comparison the irrational weeping...Sod them,even single Mothers are better.
 
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