"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are widows a good source of casual sex?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

http://www.theatlantic.com/notes/2016/04/widowed-people-are-invisible-in-this-society/480540/
Mine begins in 2001, when my husband died in a car accident on the Garden State Parkway

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I gave up dating years ago. Basically every horny man within a 20-mile radius was after me when my husband died, including the local cop, who waited six weeks to ask me out when I was walking my daughter home from school.

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One great thing about being middle aged is that you are essentially invisible; people, especially men, don’t notice you anymore.
I also remember a scene from the movie "All of Me" when a middle-aged man said that he was getting so much action from widows that anytime he read of a funeral of someone he knew, he would get a hard-on. :eek:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Probably about the same as any other single woman whom you can sufficiently game/pull. The goal is sex first relationship later with any gal.
 

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Dear MDJ,
No they are not the same as any other single Women...They loved and lost,in many cases they will never find another,many wallow in their grief,they enjoy memories of a partner who becomes lionised with every week that goes by,after a few years,no one can match this incredible Guy...Gets a bit wearing for you though,this constant negative comparison the irrational weeping...Sod them,even single Mothers are better.
 
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