Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are widows a good source of casual sex?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

http://www.theatlantic.com/notes/2016/04/widowed-people-are-invisible-in-this-society/480540/
Mine begins in 2001, when my husband died in a car accident on the Garden State Parkway

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I gave up dating years ago. Basically every horny man within a 20-mile radius was after me when my husband died, including the local cop, who waited six weeks to ask me out when I was walking my daughter home from school.

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One great thing about being middle aged is that you are essentially invisible; people, especially men, don’t notice you anymore.
I also remember a scene from the movie "All of Me" when a middle-aged man said that he was getting so much action from widows that anytime he read of a funeral of someone he knew, he would get a hard-on. :eek:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Probably about the same as any other single woman whom you can sufficiently game/pull. The goal is sex first relationship later with any gal.
 

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Dear MDJ,
No they are not the same as any other single Women...They loved and lost,in many cases they will never find another,many wallow in their grief,they enjoy memories of a partner who becomes lionised with every week that goes by,after a few years,no one can match this incredible Guy...Gets a bit wearing for you though,this constant negative comparison the irrational weeping...Sod them,even single Mothers are better.
 
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