Are we friends or not?

[Docka]

I saw this girl i knew back in the day (2-3 years ago) a couple of weeks ago. We hooked up and chilled out by getting some ice cream. We then went over to her house to watch a movie, but then i started some serious kino by feeling her lap and inside of her thighs. Then i started to play with her hair which lead to smelling her shoulders and then started kissing her neck. Which she then said:

Her:"what do you think your doing?"
Me: what? I know you want it.
Her: (she just smiled)
Me: (and i continued)

Her parent came home 2 mins later, so I stopped. We finished the movie and then i left.

A couple of days later, we're back at her place. We started drinking, and stupid me i get pretty wasted and I'm all over her a by sitting really close to her and touching her sides. And then she grabs my hand and pushes it away. But being drunk i continue a couple more times and again she pushes me away. What's up with her? Was it becauase i was mashed?

She calls me a week later. We chit chat for 5 mins and then i let her know i have to go. I then call her the next week and she thought i was gonna ask her to go out and chill, but i didn't i just wanted to say wassup.

Am I falling into the friends catagory? What should i do next?

One last thing, she said "i can't, you're like a friend, ok well, maybe not." What is this suppose to mean?


Peace

 

[Hunchback]

I guess you're not in the friend zone yet, ya still got wiggle room.

I dunno, if you're bothered about her then pull out you're best DJ moves and hit that ****.

If you're not bothered, find someone else.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Seems like you're in the neutral zone, try asking her out on a real date and busting some moves on her to see what happens.

 

[spider_007]

arrrrrr, why did you have go and get waisted?????? It means your on a crossroad. you've only seen her handfull of times, and she doesn't not yat consider you a friend; more like an aqueintance......

 

[Docka]

Originally posted by Hunchback
I guess you're not in the friend zone yet, ya still got wiggle room.

I dunno, if you're bothered about her then pull out you're best DJ moves and hit that ****.

If you're not bothered, find someone else.

What kinda DJ moves are you talking about? What do you guys suggest i do? I've been out to eat with her a couple of times, should i just continue with that? If so, what should i do after?



"Seems like you're in the neutral zone, try asking her out on a real date and busting some moves on her to see what happens."

What do you mean by busting moves? Are yout talking about teasing her? I teased her about the way she drives, i said a couple of times "give me the keys, i'll drive"

 

[Docka]

Originally posted by spider_007
arrrrrr, why did you have go and get waisted?????? It means your on a crossroad. you've only seen her handfull of times, and she doesn't not yat consider you a friend; more like an aqueintance......

Don't ask me why i got wasted. I know, it was really stupid.

I left my sunglasses at her place and its been there for at least a month and a half.

And the last time i called to tell her to meet up for a movie, she said, "call me tuesday" And i replied with a "no, forget it, your just gonna waste my time, bye" and then i hanged up. She hasn't called back and i haven't spoken to her since.

What should i say/do when i call her? Should i set something to get some dinner?