"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are we friends or not?

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I saw this girl i knew back in the day (2-3 years ago) a couple of weeks ago. We hooked up and chilled out by getting some ice cream. We then went over to her house to watch a movie, but then i started some serious kino by feeling her lap and inside of her thighs. Then i started to play with her hair which lead to smelling her shoulders and then started kissing her neck. Which she then said:

Her:"what do you think your doing?"
Me: what? I know you want it.
Her: (she just smiled)
Me: (and i continued)

Her parent came home 2 mins later, so I stopped. We finished the movie and then i left.

A couple of days later, we're back at her place. We started drinking, and stupid me i get pretty wasted and I'm all over her a by sitting really close to her and touching her sides. And then she grabs my hand and pushes it away. But being drunk i continue a couple more times and again she pushes me away. What's up with her? Was it becauase i was mashed?

She calls me a week later. We chit chat for 5 mins and then i let her know i have to go. I then call her the next week and she thought i was gonna ask her to go out and chill, but i didn't i just wanted to say wassup.

Am I falling into the friends catagory? What should i do next?

One last thing, she said "i can't, you're like a friend, ok well, maybe not." What is this suppose to mean?


Peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I guess you're not in the friend zone yet, ya still got wiggle room.

I dunno, if you're bothered about her then pull out you're best DJ moves and hit that ****.

If you're not bothered, find someone else.
 
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Seems like you're in the neutral zone, try asking her out on a real date and busting some moves on her to see what happens.
 
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arrrrrr, why did you have go and get waisted?????? It means your on a crossroad. you've only seen her handfull of times, and she doesn't not yat consider you a friend; more like an aqueintance......
 
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Originally posted by Hunchback
I guess you're not in the friend zone yet, ya still got wiggle room.

I dunno, if you're bothered about her then pull out you're best DJ moves and hit that ****.

If you're not bothered, find someone else.
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What kinda DJ moves are you talking about? What do you guys suggest i do? I've been out to eat with her a couple of times, should i just continue with that? If so, what should i do after?



"Seems like you're in the neutral zone, try asking her out on a real date and busting some moves on her to see what happens."

What do you mean by busting moves? Are yout talking about teasing her? I teased her about the way she drives, i said a couple of times "give me the keys, i'll drive"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by spider_007
arrrrrr, why did you have go and get waisted?????? It means your on a crossroad. you've only seen her handfull of times, and she doesn't not yat consider you a friend; more like an aqueintance......
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Don't ask me why i got wasted. I know, it was really stupid.

I left my sunglasses at her place and its been there for at least a month and a half.

And the last time i called to tell her to meet up for a movie, she said, "call me tuesday" And i replied with a "no, forget it, your just gonna waste my time, bye" and then i hanged up. She hasn't called back and i haven't spoken to her since.

What should i say/do when i call her? Should i set something to get some dinner?
 
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