"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I saw this girl i knew back in the day (2-3 years ago) a couple of weeks ago. We hooked up and chilled out by getting some ice cream. We then went over to her house to watch a movie, but then i started some serious kino by feeling her lap and inside of her thighs. Then i started to play with her hair which lead to smelling her shoulders and then started kissing her neck. Which she then said:

Her:"what do you think your doing?"
Me: what? I know you want it.
Her: (she just smiled)
Me: (and i continued)

Her parent came home 2 mins later, so I stopped. We finished the movie and then i left.

A couple of days later, we're back at her place. We started drinking, and stupid me i get pretty wasted and I'm all over her a by sitting really close to her and touching her sides. And then she grabs my hand and pushes it away. But being drunk i continue a couple more times and again she pushes me away. What's up with her? Was it becauase i was mashed?

She calls me a week later. We chit chat for 5 mins and then i let her know i have to go. I then call her the next week and she thought i was gonna ask her to go out and chill, but i didn't i just wanted to say wassup.

Am I falling into the friends catagory? What should i do next?

One last thing, she said "i can't, you're like a friend, ok well, maybe not." What is this suppose to mean?


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I guess you're not in the friend zone yet, ya still got wiggle room.

I dunno, if you're bothered about her then pull out you're best DJ moves and hit that ****.

If you're not bothered, find someone else.
 
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Seems like you're in the neutral zone, try asking her out on a real date and busting some moves on her to see what happens.
 
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arrrrrr, why did you have go and get waisted?????? It means your on a crossroad. you've only seen her handfull of times, and she doesn't not yat consider you a friend; more like an aqueintance......
 
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Originally posted by Hunchback
I guess you're not in the friend zone yet, ya still got wiggle room.

I dunno, if you're bothered about her then pull out you're best DJ moves and hit that ****.

If you're not bothered, find someone else.
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What kinda DJ moves are you talking about? What do you guys suggest i do? I've been out to eat with her a couple of times, should i just continue with that? If so, what should i do after?



"Seems like you're in the neutral zone, try asking her out on a real date and busting some moves on her to see what happens."

What do you mean by busting moves? Are yout talking about teasing her? I teased her about the way she drives, i said a couple of times "give me the keys, i'll drive"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by spider_007
arrrrrr, why did you have go and get waisted?????? It means your on a crossroad. you've only seen her handfull of times, and she doesn't not yat consider you a friend; more like an aqueintance......
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Don't ask me why i got wasted. I know, it was really stupid.

I left my sunglasses at her place and its been there for at least a month and a half.

And the last time i called to tell her to meet up for a movie, she said, "call me tuesday" And i replied with a "no, forget it, your just gonna waste my time, bye" and then i hanged up. She hasn't called back and i haven't spoken to her since.

What should i say/do when i call her? Should i set something to get some dinner?
 
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