"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are Ugly People Meaner?

captmurca

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The experiences I've had are that below average looking people tend to be more mean, sarcastic, ruder and generally more negative. I went to a game night and most all of the people there were fat and below average looking, putting it politely. They were constantly sarcastic and negative.

However, when I meet beautiful women and good looking men, they are generally polite and upbeat. What are your experiences?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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I mean how would you even measure this? All you can do is make generalizations from very small data sample sizes that likely have very large margins of errors.
 

MatureDJ

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I think that evolutionarily speaking, ugly men have to be meaner so as to show alpha cred, so of a pool of ugly men, only the mean ones were able to reproduce. And here "mean" also means "willing to rape". :eek:
 
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