"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are these shirts gay?

nmartinez12443

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actually I am a gemini my b-day is tommorrow june 18th.

I am just tired of the jeans/button up shirt look, its so played out. Now I am not going for a "HEY LOOK AT ME" LOOK, but I personally think these shirts are awesome and I am getting 3 of them, the peacock one probably not. However, I will say this when I go out to bars I am most successful with a standard jeans and button up look with a little blang on my arm as opposed to a funky t-shirt look, these shirts i will probably wear during the day. Since it is so hot (austin TX)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Instead of calling themselves, "Design By Humans", they should change their name to "Designed By Homos!"

Does that answer your question? :rolleyes:
 

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yes, they are gay. They are supposed to be gay and get a reaction.

To be honest, I would totally wear the second shirt to a club and show up with 3 hot girls for no other reason than to piss off the rest of the "normal" guys. But...I wouldn't wear it out anywhere during the day because it may attract too much negative attention.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have another top that is white with baby blue stripes. In the past I could not *pull it off* - now I can easily. I even tested how much craziness I could *pull off.*
Is a shirt and a "top" the same thing or only when dealing with more of a girly shirt(top)?
 

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3rd shirt is pretty cool, got one similar to that. 1st shirt is a bit to 'ravy', 2nd is just plain ugly and you need to be a certain type of guy to pull off the 4th (ie big and buff)
And $25 for a t-shirt? That's a pretty standard price, you damn Americans with your cheap clothing. I have to pay £15 minimum for t-shirts or polo shirts from the local high street fashion stores or for last season's stuff in TK Maxx.
 

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TheFlyOne said:
Is a shirt and a "top" the same thing or only when dealing with more of a girly shirt(top)?
"Top" is a generic term that could mean t-shirt, turtle-neck, sweater, anything - anything BUT pants/skirts, etc I didn't want to say 'shirt' because many guys would assume shirt means 'T-Shirt.' "Top" is a word that is used by the more fashion conscious and by all the girls.


DuffDog said:
yes, they are gay. They are supposed to be gay and get a reaction.

To be honest, I would totally wear the second shirt to a club and show up with 3 hot girls for no other reason than to piss off the rest of the "normal" guys. But...I wouldn't wear it out anywhere during the day because it may attract too much negative attention.
I'm sure you don't wear clothes just to *get a reaction.* You have to truly like what you are wearing - otherwise everyone will see that you are fake and are just trying to get a reaction. That's why I am against the *spirit* of peacocking - it is just attention whoring, guy-style. And I agree - there is a time and place for wearing those shirts - context is everything.

Wear what YOU like - consequences be damned. Of course that takes balls if your style is a bit unconventional - but balls are everything.
 

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VASSUUUPP!!! IM BRUNO!!!

:crackup:

I can't wait to see Bruno.

I like the Death shirt... but maybe they were designed for AWs?? LOL If I saw them on a guy, I think my second thought would be that he 'needs' attention. The first thought would be that he's 'gay'. Sorry.

edit to add: Happy Belated Birthday, nmartinez12443!
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why worry about what anyone thinks about what you wear? Really, my girlfriends and more to the point my moms buy me clothes all the time and I wear that sh*t like a badge. If you personally want to buy something just do it. Always remember its the man that makes the clothes and not the other way around. I buy stuff that I think looks good on me and I give a f*ck about what anybody else thinks about my styling. I do a good job and I wear what suits me.

If you don't think you're a rockstar, nobody else will. Act like you're somebody and people will look at you as such.
 

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PRMoon said:
Why worry about what anyone thinks about what you wear? Really, my girlfriends and more to the point my moms buy me clothes all the time and I wear that sh*t like a badge. If you personally want to buy something just do it. Always remember its the man that makes the clothes and not the other way around. I buy stuff that I think looks good on me and I give a f*ck about what anybody else thinks about my styling. I do a good job and I wear what suits me.

Great post. The more I think about it, the more I realize that a real man is simply the complete opposite of a girl.

The girl worries about: 'Do I look fat in these clothes?'

The man just wears what he wants to wear.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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