"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are these shirts gay?

nmartinez12443

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actually I am a gemini my b-day is tommorrow june 18th.

I am just tired of the jeans/button up shirt look, its so played out. Now I am not going for a "HEY LOOK AT ME" LOOK, but I personally think these shirts are awesome and I am getting 3 of them, the peacock one probably not. However, I will say this when I go out to bars I am most successful with a standard jeans and button up look with a little blang on my arm as opposed to a funky t-shirt look, these shirts i will probably wear during the day. Since it is so hot (austin TX)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Instead of calling themselves, "Design By Humans", they should change their name to "Designed By Homos!"

Does that answer your question? :rolleyes:
 

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yes, they are gay. They are supposed to be gay and get a reaction.

To be honest, I would totally wear the second shirt to a club and show up with 3 hot girls for no other reason than to piss off the rest of the "normal" guys. But...I wouldn't wear it out anywhere during the day because it may attract too much negative attention.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have another top that is white with baby blue stripes. In the past I could not *pull it off* - now I can easily. I even tested how much craziness I could *pull off.*
Is a shirt and a "top" the same thing or only when dealing with more of a girly shirt(top)?
 

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3rd shirt is pretty cool, got one similar to that. 1st shirt is a bit to 'ravy', 2nd is just plain ugly and you need to be a certain type of guy to pull off the 4th (ie big and buff)
And $25 for a t-shirt? That's a pretty standard price, you damn Americans with your cheap clothing. I have to pay £15 minimum for t-shirts or polo shirts from the local high street fashion stores or for last season's stuff in TK Maxx.
 

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TheFlyOne said:
Is a shirt and a "top" the same thing or only when dealing with more of a girly shirt(top)?
"Top" is a generic term that could mean t-shirt, turtle-neck, sweater, anything - anything BUT pants/skirts, etc I didn't want to say 'shirt' because many guys would assume shirt means 'T-Shirt.' "Top" is a word that is used by the more fashion conscious and by all the girls.


DuffDog said:
yes, they are gay. They are supposed to be gay and get a reaction.

To be honest, I would totally wear the second shirt to a club and show up with 3 hot girls for no other reason than to piss off the rest of the "normal" guys. But...I wouldn't wear it out anywhere during the day because it may attract too much negative attention.
I'm sure you don't wear clothes just to *get a reaction.* You have to truly like what you are wearing - otherwise everyone will see that you are fake and are just trying to get a reaction. That's why I am against the *spirit* of peacocking - it is just attention whoring, guy-style. And I agree - there is a time and place for wearing those shirts - context is everything.

Wear what YOU like - consequences be damned. Of course that takes balls if your style is a bit unconventional - but balls are everything.
 

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VASSUUUPP!!! IM BRUNO!!!

:crackup:

I can't wait to see Bruno.

I like the Death shirt... but maybe they were designed for AWs?? LOL If I saw them on a guy, I think my second thought would be that he 'needs' attention. The first thought would be that he's 'gay'. Sorry.

edit to add: Happy Belated Birthday, nmartinez12443!
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why worry about what anyone thinks about what you wear? Really, my girlfriends and more to the point my moms buy me clothes all the time and I wear that sh*t like a badge. If you personally want to buy something just do it. Always remember its the man that makes the clothes and not the other way around. I buy stuff that I think looks good on me and I give a f*ck about what anybody else thinks about my styling. I do a good job and I wear what suits me.

If you don't think you're a rockstar, nobody else will. Act like you're somebody and people will look at you as such.
 

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PRMoon said:
Why worry about what anyone thinks about what you wear? Really, my girlfriends and more to the point my moms buy me clothes all the time and I wear that sh*t like a badge. If you personally want to buy something just do it. Always remember its the man that makes the clothes and not the other way around. I buy stuff that I think looks good on me and I give a f*ck about what anybody else thinks about my styling. I do a good job and I wear what suits me.

Great post. The more I think about it, the more I realize that a real man is simply the complete opposite of a girl.

The girl worries about: 'Do I look fat in these clothes?'

The man just wears what he wants to wear.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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