"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits.

1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them.

2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night.

3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin but is constantly verbalizing how she wishes she was skinnier.

4) Overall very low self-esteem.

Should I tread lightly?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Who cares, you're in charge, you own the frame, can dispose of her
whenever you want and wont catch feelings for her.
 
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In situations like this you have to remember that you get involved with them there's no way to not get affected by the negative energy in their lives. Whether it be getting involved with a woman that's a drunk, a druggie, a BPD or whatever.

Whatever satisfaction you will get from having secks with them will be overshadowed by the drama and negative energy from her life that will be attached to your life.
 
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No, she's perfectly normal. Just make sure you have her checked for Morgellon's disease. This is a disease where micro-scopic fibers are created under the skin in different colours, and it eventually results in insanity. Google "Morgellon's". She has delusions of having moving parasites or fibers in her skin and picks at them. This disease is said to have come from outer-space. Maybe she's an alien. Again, google "Morgellon's disease", I kid you not.
 
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Possible OCD, or drug use. Up to you, dude. Just make sure you don't jump on that for all the the wrong reasons.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheeks said:
Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits.

1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them.

2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night.

3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin but is constantly verbalizing how she wishes she was skinnier.

4) Overall very low self-esteem.

Should I tread lightly?
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How long have you known her? what is her background?
from what you have posted Id be very wary to not get attached.
we chuck terms like BPD around a lot on sites like these but this girl is sending some serious red flags out, keep your distance
 
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