"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are these red flags?

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Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits.

1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them.

2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night.

3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin but is constantly verbalizing how she wishes she was skinnier.

4) Overall very low self-esteem.

Should I tread lightly?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who cares, you're in charge, you own the frame, can dispose of her
whenever you want and wont catch feelings for her.
 
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In situations like this you have to remember that you get involved with them there's no way to not get affected by the negative energy in their lives. Whether it be getting involved with a woman that's a drunk, a druggie, a BPD or whatever.

Whatever satisfaction you will get from having secks with them will be overshadowed by the drama and negative energy from her life that will be attached to your life.
 
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No, she's perfectly normal. Just make sure you have her checked for Morgellon's disease. This is a disease where micro-scopic fibers are created under the skin in different colours, and it eventually results in insanity. Google "Morgellon's". She has delusions of having moving parasites or fibers in her skin and picks at them. This disease is said to have come from outer-space. Maybe she's an alien. Again, google "Morgellon's disease", I kid you not.
 
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Possible OCD, or drug use. Up to you, dude. Just make sure you don't jump on that for all the the wrong reasons.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cheeks said:
Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits.

1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them.

2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night.

3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin but is constantly verbalizing how she wishes she was skinnier.

4) Overall very low self-esteem.

Should I tread lightly?
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How long have you known her? what is her background?
from what you have posted Id be very wary to not get attached.
we chuck terms like BPD around a lot on sites like these but this girl is sending some serious red flags out, keep your distance
 
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