"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are these red flags?

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Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits.

1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them.

2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night.

3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin but is constantly verbalizing how she wishes she was skinnier.

4) Overall very low self-esteem.

Should I tread lightly?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who cares, you're in charge, you own the frame, can dispose of her
whenever you want and wont catch feelings for her.
 
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In situations like this you have to remember that you get involved with them there's no way to not get affected by the negative energy in their lives. Whether it be getting involved with a woman that's a drunk, a druggie, a BPD or whatever.

Whatever satisfaction you will get from having secks with them will be overshadowed by the drama and negative energy from her life that will be attached to your life.
 
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No, she's perfectly normal. Just make sure you have her checked for Morgellon's disease. This is a disease where micro-scopic fibers are created under the skin in different colours, and it eventually results in insanity. Google "Morgellon's". She has delusions of having moving parasites or fibers in her skin and picks at them. This disease is said to have come from outer-space. Maybe she's an alien. Again, google "Morgellon's disease", I kid you not.
 
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Possible OCD, or drug use. Up to you, dude. Just make sure you don't jump on that for all the the wrong reasons.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cheeks said:
Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits.

1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them.

2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night.

3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin but is constantly verbalizing how she wishes she was skinnier.

4) Overall very low self-esteem.

Should I tread lightly?
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How long have you known her? what is her background?
from what you have posted Id be very wary to not get attached.
we chuck terms like BPD around a lot on sites like these but this girl is sending some serious red flags out, keep your distance
 
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