"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LuvMyArmyMan
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And to clear things up, generally girls with naturally huge breasts are not thin (like a size 2-4), because breast tissue is mostly fat. And when you have a lot of fat on your chest, theres a huge chance you'll have it other places too. And if a girl were to have giant breasts and is fat, and if she loses weight, she'll lose a cup size or so. It's just how it works. There are exceptions of course to girls that are huge but with small boobs and some girls just happen to be thinner and have huge breasts but end up having tremendous back pain and end up having reduction surguries because their small bodies can't handle the weight. Ever wonder why Pamela anderson's boobs have always looked fake? because she's so tiny it looks disproportional to have enormous breasts. Therefore, when a girl is bigger her body is able to handle bigger breasts better. Believe me, i know this as i have breasts and i'm in a sorority.
MetalFortress
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Her breasts are unnatural as hell though. I'd go for the chick on the left, but not the one on the right. Fake boobs suck.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
Those are the girls I like.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Those girls are on the heftier side, not saying they wouldn't be good for a one nighter though
Still not my typical date type. For some reason i'm majorly attracted to evenly proportioned taller girls, usually they don't have breast that are that large. I'm not really a tit guy all in all, I mean a girl has to have them but haveing them that large really isn't an issue with me.Tryin to Grow a Chin
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I've fvcked my share of ultra-skinny chicks and found it most unsatisfying. It was though I was fvcking thin air, or my mattress.
So much better when they have some flesh on them.
LuvMyArmyMan
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and no, those girls are NOT on the hefty side. Since when is muscular hefty?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Okay the one on the left isn't all that hefty. But the one on the right (titani-tits) would definately give my back some issues if I were to try to lift her. That's hefty enough for me. How do you confuse fat (breat is mostly fat as pointed out) with muscle?
Nex
Senior Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MetalFortress
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Another pic of the chick on the left. If she is overweight on your scale, Nex, then you have an auschwitz fetish.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
She isn't all that bad, but she's no superstar i my book. I Had better sitting on my lap last night at one of my local bars, and I wasn't all that impressed by her either.
I'll admit she has some presence but take a look at any web site pretaining to LV nightclubs and you'll see why i probably wouldn't even turn my head if I noticed this girl out and about.
It's kinda hard to tell with that jacket on but I think she could do for some side bends as well.
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You guys are helpless.
Centaurion
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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PRMoon
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Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
Think about how many girls in america are starving themselves to loose a few pounds. Binge eating and bulima are a the norm for many girls because they want to look thinner or in their mind prettier.
It's not a new concept, it's been ground into our psyche since we were born.
Her boobs look unnatural because she is wearing a ****ty bra. My boobs are that size...and they are 100% natural. I'm "thick"...hourglass figure with massive mammaries and wide curvy hips and a waist that is sorta small compared to the rest of me. Boobs that size can be natural on a non-fat girl as long as her ass/hips are curvy enough to off-set the top-heavyness. It's all about balance...
Well, the guys who think any female whose physique doesn't resemble a 12 year old boy is fat have issues. Anorexic looking girls/women look like pre-pubescent boys...no boobs, no curves, just a walking board. They should just save their time and money and go find a tree with a knot hole in it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.