"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
are these questions too direct?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.Originally posted by napoleon
If you ask girl questions like-
What is my hottest feature.
What excites you in a man.
Where do you usually go out with men.
Are they too direct?
satyriasis
Don Juan
Originally posted by \O/
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.
Why do you think these questions are me trying to qualify myself.
I wouldn't ask Do you find me hot, which is qualifying, I'd ask whats hottest about be-saying I know you think I'm hot but what do you like the most.
Any opinions?
satyriasis
Don Juan
where do you usually go out with men? - this is saying... i dont know the meaning of a fun time, where to go, or what to do, so you pick somewhere we can go and we'll go.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What should I talk about the weater or what she did that day, cause everything I say and ask can be translated into insecurity and neediness. For instance even if I ask, better yet tell her- Lets fu.ck, it can be translated- he's insecure, he wants to find out if she wants to fak, he should assume she does, not talk about it.
Anybody other, opinions?
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