"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
are these questions too direct?
- Thread starter napoleon
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.Originally posted by napoleon
If you ask girl questions like-
What is my hottest feature.
What excites you in a man.
Where do you usually go out with men.
Are they too direct?
satyriasis
Don Juan
Originally posted by \O/
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.
Why do you think these questions are me trying to qualify myself.
I wouldn't ask Do you find me hot, which is qualifying, I'd ask whats hottest about be-saying I know you think I'm hot but what do you like the most.
Any opinions?
satyriasis
Don Juan
where do you usually go out with men? - this is saying... i dont know the meaning of a fun time, where to go, or what to do, so you pick somewhere we can go and we'll go.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What should I talk about the weater or what she did that day, cause everything I say and ask can be translated into insecurity and neediness. For instance even if I ask, better yet tell her- Lets fu.ck, it can be translated- he's insecure, he wants to find out if she wants to fak, he should assume she does, not talk about it.
Anybody other, opinions?
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