"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
are these questions too direct?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.Originally posted by napoleon
If you ask girl questions like-
What is my hottest feature.
What excites you in a man.
Where do you usually go out with men.
Are they too direct?
satyriasis
Don Juan
Originally posted by \O/
It would seem like you are qualifying yourself or that you are seeking their approval. No good. Stay clear of those questions, except maybe the "what excites you in a man?" That is usable in the right situation.
Why do you think these questions are me trying to qualify myself.
I wouldn't ask Do you find me hot, which is qualifying, I'd ask whats hottest about be-saying I know you think I'm hot but what do you like the most.
Any opinions?
satyriasis
Don Juan
where do you usually go out with men? - this is saying... i dont know the meaning of a fun time, where to go, or what to do, so you pick somewhere we can go and we'll go.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What should I talk about the weater or what she did that day, cause everything I say and ask can be translated into insecurity and neediness. For instance even if I ask, better yet tell her- Lets fu.ck, it can be translated- he's insecure, he wants to find out if she wants to fak, he should assume she does, not talk about it.
Anybody other, opinions?
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