It is possible. I'm sure getting laid would improve your confidence, and if you're not getting any then you feel like somehow you're not worthwhile. I was obsessed with getting laid and losing my virginity up until a few weeks ago (mainly I wanted to lose the "label", but I also wanted experience). I was fooling around with an attention w**** and I realised that I actually was quite good. She was saying how she can't believe I'm a virgin.
Given that I am ALWAYS reading about how to give women good sex, and that I am very sensual and turning women on turns me on, I KNOW that I will be a good lay. It gives me confidence now because I realise I am more willing to satisfy a woman than most guys are, and that makes me a good catch. I can show her sex with me would be great just by the way I touch her. I find my mindset has changed and I am looking for a satisfying relationship FIRST, before getting laid.