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Are Structured Singles Events a Waste of Time?

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I went to a salsa dancing night venue in the past and it was LOUD. I have read online that the country western venue in my city is also LOUD. Pickup is difficult when it is loud. I prefer quieter places if I'm doing pickup.
I think dances are basically the sane equivalen tof structured singles events. These are unstructred singles events without the desperate vibes at the singles event.
What do you mean by "dances"? High schools have dances, including Prom and Homecoming, but after high school graduation, "dances" are a foreign concept.

I have seen night venues that are centered around dancing. For instance, in my area, I can name venues that serve alcohol and are centered around salsa dancing or country western dancing. Also, there are nightclubs with dance floors with EDM and Top 40, but I haven't heard much of those types of venues. They seem to be disappearing. None of those venues I would call "dances".
 

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What do you mean by "dances"? High schools have dances, including Prom and Homecoming, but after high school graduation, "dances" are a foreign concept.

I have seen night venues that are centered around dancing. For instance, in my area, I can name venues that serve alcohol and are centered around salsa dancing or country western dancing. Also, there are nightclubs with dance floors with EDM and Top 40, but I haven't heard much of those types of venues. They seem to be disappearing. None of those venues I would call "dances".
They have Mexican dance events where a live band will play and the whole idea is you go there to maybe meet someone. And yeah its kind of like a high school dance but for young adults (age 18-35)
 

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When a woman goes to a “structured singles event”, it’s akin to online dating for her, the logical part of her brain kicks in and she wants James Bonde
Jesus you guys are traumatized by us James Bond look a likes
 

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They have Mexican dance events where a live band will play and the whole idea is you go there to maybe meet someone. And yeah its kind of like a high school dance but for young adults (age 18-35)
That sounds like a slightly more structured version of going out to a nightlife venue in either the Southwestern US or Florida (areas with big Hispanic populations) and them playing salsa, bachata, etc.

I have gone to night venues where there was a band and salsa music/salsa dancing. That was unstructured, as people in couples come out there and salsa dance. Salsa dancing night venues are a thing for pickup.
 

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