Yep, too many options, OLD usually isn't one of them. I've met gf's through OLD, maybe I wasn't ready, maybe they were equally unstable, but it never worked out. Even my current girlfriend we matched on tinder in 2017, I msged her and got no reply, we only found out a year later, I obviously wasn't physically attractive enough, which does piss me off, because my face is 80% of my game!It's been my experience that decently attractive women that find me attractive enough to date spend VERY little time single - they are only generally available for a few weeks.![]()
Can't beat meeting a girl irl and having strong attraction, getting her number and taking things from there. The excitement is higher and the anxiety is lower (you already met her in person), the battle is half won.
Let's bring back old school dating and values.