Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are really hot girls stupid?

Are they?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 2 16.7%
  • No.

    Votes: 5 41.7%
  • Most of them.

    Votes: 5 41.7%

  • Total voters
    12

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is being smart, if the lesser intelligent one has control over the more intelligent one? Conflicting thought ;)




Them making you nauseous when they speak because they are so ignorant, and what they think is important is ultimately meaningless. Now thats totally different lol.
 

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I doubt it, guys are always trying something to get them in the sack, so they have to be on it.

On the other hand, some of the blond female passengers, have come off as unaware/clueless.

I guess, it really depends in the individual.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its a bell curve. Few are really dumb, some are dumb, most are of average intelligence, some are smart, and few are extremely intelligent. This false dichotomy that either all hot girls are dumb, or all hots girls are smart, is dumb.
 

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define smart though.

smart as in has a degree in theoretical physics? well there are a lot of female biology/chemistry majors, many are hot.

smart as in street smart? well lots of drug dealers have a woman who helps them sell, plenty of pimps are female, most strippers know how to extract thousands from a beta, etc.

as a general rule, no woman you meet will be particularly smart, because smart people in general are uncommon, but her being hot doesn't necessarily have a bearing on her intelligence unless she's also extremely lazy or narcissistic to the point that she relies on her looks (the kinda girl who bangs her boss to get a job that she does nothing in, or the kinda girl who doesn't pay attention in class then flirts with nerds for tutoring/answers)
 

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This has actually turned out to be a really hard thing to do in psychology.
that's mainly because what type of intelligence is being referred to depends on context, so how smart someone is depends on what the context is.

aka, having a perfect GPA doesn't make you smart when it comes to winning a street fight, but having the ability to win a street fight isn't going to look impressive on a job resume
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All women are treated the same, regardless of looks.

So if this question was "Are girls stupid?", the answer would be entirely up to you.
 

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Being smart can be a matter of perspective, as hot girls socially can manipulate the most intelligent non-social man.
I'd say they are still quite dumb. They will pass up the quality guy and go for a bad boy who beats them.

Very hot ones rely on their looks too much. I've rarely see them do well in school or progress in their profession. So many of them due stupid jobs like make up artist or waitressing.

Moreover, they tend to become a single parent early in life which shows they have horrible judgment.
 

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Some are dumb, like the ones who have learned to use their t!ts to get by. Some of them are the type who like to get their life together, they'll work out, maximize their looks, and be ambitious in their career. Maybe like a great theater actress, for example. Those girls can be quite intelligent. Probably don't make the best girlfriends though.
 

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were talking about 8s and 9s
Let's see: really hot means really physically healthy and fertile. That means their brain gets more blood and nourishment. That would tend to make them smarter.

"I want a woman who is not only beautiful, but kind and caring like an ugly woman"
- Drew Carey
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They aren't as smart as they could be..... with looks they can marry money, They don't need to be a Doctor, they can marry one..... so they don't necessarily stretch their limits in that area
The look at men as props, such as dildos, ATM's and wallets, lol. They figure their physical beauty can buy them whatever they would like in life.
 

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hot blondes have to be weirdest in this regard... I have never ever met one that is middle ground in the brains department. They're either extremely intelligent or really dumb... at least those that I've met seem to be either.
 

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Depends how they were brought up. If they just learnt to trade on their looks... oh well...
 

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Generally they are. I feel it is because the lure of just meeting a dude with money and never working again is just too strong for many women so they just never try to develop themselves personally.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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