"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are really hot girls stupid?

Are they?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 2 16.7%
  • No.

    Votes: 5 41.7%
  • Most of them.

    Votes: 5 41.7%

  • Total voters
    12

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is being smart, if the lesser intelligent one has control over the more intelligent one? Conflicting thought ;)




Them making you nauseous when they speak because they are so ignorant, and what they think is important is ultimately meaningless. Now thats totally different lol.
 

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I doubt it, guys are always trying something to get them in the sack, so they have to be on it.

On the other hand, some of the blond female passengers, have come off as unaware/clueless.

I guess, it really depends in the individual.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its a bell curve. Few are really dumb, some are dumb, most are of average intelligence, some are smart, and few are extremely intelligent. This false dichotomy that either all hot girls are dumb, or all hots girls are smart, is dumb.
 

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define smart though.

smart as in has a degree in theoretical physics? well there are a lot of female biology/chemistry majors, many are hot.

smart as in street smart? well lots of drug dealers have a woman who helps them sell, plenty of pimps are female, most strippers know how to extract thousands from a beta, etc.

as a general rule, no woman you meet will be particularly smart, because smart people in general are uncommon, but her being hot doesn't necessarily have a bearing on her intelligence unless she's also extremely lazy or narcissistic to the point that she relies on her looks (the kinda girl who bangs her boss to get a job that she does nothing in, or the kinda girl who doesn't pay attention in class then flirts with nerds for tutoring/answers)
 

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This has actually turned out to be a really hard thing to do in psychology.
that's mainly because what type of intelligence is being referred to depends on context, so how smart someone is depends on what the context is.

aka, having a perfect GPA doesn't make you smart when it comes to winning a street fight, but having the ability to win a street fight isn't going to look impressive on a job resume
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All women are treated the same, regardless of looks.

So if this question was "Are girls stupid?", the answer would be entirely up to you.
 

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Being smart can be a matter of perspective, as hot girls socially can manipulate the most intelligent non-social man.
I'd say they are still quite dumb. They will pass up the quality guy and go for a bad boy who beats them.

Very hot ones rely on their looks too much. I've rarely see them do well in school or progress in their profession. So many of them due stupid jobs like make up artist or waitressing.

Moreover, they tend to become a single parent early in life which shows they have horrible judgment.
 

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Some are dumb, like the ones who have learned to use their t!ts to get by. Some of them are the type who like to get their life together, they'll work out, maximize their looks, and be ambitious in their career. Maybe like a great theater actress, for example. Those girls can be quite intelligent. Probably don't make the best girlfriends though.
 

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were talking about 8s and 9s
Let's see: really hot means really physically healthy and fertile. That means their brain gets more blood and nourishment. That would tend to make them smarter.

"I want a woman who is not only beautiful, but kind and caring like an ugly woman"
- Drew Carey
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They aren't as smart as they could be..... with looks they can marry money, They don't need to be a Doctor, they can marry one..... so they don't necessarily stretch their limits in that area
The look at men as props, such as dildos, ATM's and wallets, lol. They figure their physical beauty can buy them whatever they would like in life.
 

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hot blondes have to be weirdest in this regard... I have never ever met one that is middle ground in the brains department. They're either extremely intelligent or really dumb... at least those that I've met seem to be either.
 

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Depends how they were brought up. If they just learnt to trade on their looks... oh well...
 

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Generally they are. I feel it is because the lure of just meeting a dude with money and never working again is just too strong for many women so they just never try to develop themselves personally.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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