“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
are neg hits really THAT important
- Thread starter wildchild
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Tha Realnezz
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I usually don't do them unless she's basically doing it to me first.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
It seems to snap them into a more attentive mode, much more conducive to getting a result. Now this could be that I'm generally not attracting them to start with, or my theory is, most women assume they have the edge with most blokes, until you prove otherwise. The sooner you do that, the better.
Now don't get me wrong, I don't launch into an insult mode, just show that you are not afraid to put them in their place.
I notice a lot of people who fantasies that if you neg hit when you shouldn't, you'll get slapped or beaten up or something.
Usually this is because they haven't tried it. My experience is AT WORST they will call you a wanker and walk away, and that's if you really, really mess up bad.
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
Agree 100% It is a tool used to bring a girl off her pedestal and break through her b1tch shield. You cannot build rapport or sexual tension with a girl with her b1tch shield up. If she already communicates on the same level or looks up to you then there is no need. Otherwise you will come off as a jerk.
If you understand the concept of a neghit, then you will know that these are in fact hidden insults.
Move on to other more positive flirting techniques such as teasing and playfulness.
Kaine
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No, of course not.
Friendly teasing is one thing...neghits are another. Neghits are supposed to knock a girl off her pedestal. They are NOT a seduction technique.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Just as the guys said, neg-hits are just for dealing breaking a gal's b1thch shield. That's it.
Teasing, on the other hand, is golden if it's done right, in a playful, fun way, as opposed to truly mean-spirited. That said, a lot of guys don't pull it off, and should steer clear of it.