"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are most guys born with "game"? are they are born with the social-skills?

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ilikecharlene

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Another thing, in our society we seem to view women as different. why is it difficult to talk to a woman over a man? Both are human beings. We are conditioned to view women as special, and I feel true DJs/players overcome (or resist conditioning) viewing women as special.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, for the guys who are naturals, have been pulling girls, ***** from an early age, like the end of middle school, particularly 8th grade or high school, it is probably a combination of genetics and how they were raised, their surroundings socially-wise, how they grew up, etc.
 
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ilikecharlene said:
Another thing, in our society we seem to view women as different. why is it difficult to talk to a woman over a man? Both are human beings. We are conditioned to view women as special, and I feel true DJs/players overcome (or resist conditioning) viewing women as special.
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maybe because men and women think diffferent, interpret things differently, but yeah, seriously, on a forum on a different site, another person said what some of you have been saying "It's not something you're "born" with, it's a result of your upbringing", what specifically, are common upbringings that make a guy born with game, make him a natural, make him born with having success with attracting girls from an early age? what are the specific factors?
 
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