Are most guys born with "game"? are they are born with the social-skills?

[ilikecharlene]

Another thing, in our society we seem to view women as different. why is it difficult to talk to a woman over a man? Both are human beings. We are conditioned to view women as special, and I feel true DJs/players overcome (or resist conditioning) viewing women as special.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

Yeah, for the guys who are naturals, have been pulling girls, ***** from an early age, like the end of middle school, particularly 8th grade or high school, it is probably a combination of genetics and how they were raised, their surroundings socially-wise, how they grew up, etc.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

Another thing, in our society we seem to view women as different. why is it difficult to talk to a woman over a man? Both are human beings. We are conditioned to view women as special, and I feel true DJs/players overcome (or resist conditioning) viewing women as special.

maybe because men and women think diffferent, interpret things differently, but yeah, seriously, on a forum on a different site, another person said what some of you have been saying "It's not something you're "born" with, it's a result of your upbringing", what specifically, are common upbringings that make a guy born with game, make him a natural, make him born with having success with attracting girls from an early age? what are the specific factors?