"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are most guys born with "game"? are they are born with the social-skills?

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ilikecharlene

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Another thing, in our society we seem to view women as different. why is it difficult to talk to a woman over a man? Both are human beings. We are conditioned to view women as special, and I feel true DJs/players overcome (or resist conditioning) viewing women as special.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah, for the guys who are naturals, have been pulling girls, ***** from an early age, like the end of middle school, particularly 8th grade or high school, it is probably a combination of genetics and how they were raised, their surroundings socially-wise, how they grew up, etc.
 
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ilikecharlene said:
Another thing, in our society we seem to view women as different. why is it difficult to talk to a woman over a man? Both are human beings. We are conditioned to view women as special, and I feel true DJs/players overcome (or resist conditioning) viewing women as special.
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maybe because men and women think diffferent, interpret things differently, but yeah, seriously, on a forum on a different site, another person said what some of you have been saying "It's not something you're "born" with, it's a result of your upbringing", what specifically, are common upbringings that make a guy born with game, make him a natural, make him born with having success with attracting girls from an early age? what are the specific factors?
 
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