crackers444
Don Juan
I'm curious to hear your views, Do you place more importance on a girl's looks or personality? I find it would be nice to have both qualities, but it doesn't alway's work like that.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Are looks more important than personality these days?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Ofcourse.. Personality???.... what's that? I like them young, pretty and dumb.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Any DJ with any real and tangible success will tell you there is a lot more to a girl than her looks. Looks aren't good enough. Looks are a dime a dozen. What good are looks if the girl is psychotic, not attracted to you, a b1tch, STD-infested, or any other number of deal breakers? This is why it's important to qualify women. They do it to you, you should be doing it to them.
"ONLY" going after a girl for sex is fine, but I don't run into many guys these days who have the ability to JUST have sex with women, particularly attractive ones, and NOT get attached. Oneitis and an AFC mentality are rampant.
I personally believe looks are very important, but so is personality. I must be attracted to a girl physically, but also desire to be around her. Her femininity has to be particularly alluring. I can have sex with women who don't possess the qualities of LTR-worthy women, but my expectations and whether or not it's worth the trouble become a factor in my decision making.
"ONLY" going after a girl for sex is fine, but I don't run into many guys these days who have the ability to JUST have sex with women, particularly attractive ones, and NOT get attached. Oneitis and an AFC mentality are rampant.
I personally believe looks are very important, but so is personality. I must be attracted to a girl physically, but also desire to be around her. Her femininity has to be particularly alluring. I can have sex with women who don't possess the qualities of LTR-worthy women, but my expectations and whether or not it's worth the trouble become a factor in my decision making.
Prodigy746
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As long as the girl is not butt ugly and not super fat i am more concerned about personality.
If we are talking about GF
The way i see it is, you might spend 1-2 hours at the most having sex and enjoying the beauty but chances are you will have to spend 6-7 hrs with her hanging out and talking.
If we are talking about short term gf or one night stand than i could care less about personality... give me the goodies.
If we are talking about GF
The way i see it is, you might spend 1-2 hours at the most having sex and enjoying the beauty but chances are you will have to spend 6-7 hrs with her hanging out and talking.
If we are talking about short term gf or one night stand than i could care less about personality... give me the goodies.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
i guess it depends. if i just wanna fvck the girl, then i can care less about her personality. but with a girlfriend, i would say half and half. i dont care how hot she is, but if i cant talk to the chick and be stimulated, then no way!
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Looks do matter but for LTR type of women, if she has a great personality with even above average looks, that is great for me. The really hot women are short term flings.
Demon Lord
Don Juan
I'd rather be with an average looking girl with a great personality than a nutty babe with a perfect body... In the end a p.ssy is a p.ssy.
But why would you like to chose when you can search and find a woman with a sexy body & a sexy mind to give you what you want ? :yes:
But why would you like to chose when you can search and find a woman with a sexy body & a sexy mind to give you what you want ? :yes: